At dinner it was all about the olives.
Do these olives taste different?
Does this olive look like a hat?
Are the green olives bigger because they have the red thing in the middle?
Before dinner @ had asked for the key to a cabinet. When I asked why, he said he wanted to see his brother's ashes. I hesitated, but I had to separate my own reaction from his request. There wasn't a reason to deny his request. It was unexpected but simple, attainable.